Mom slapped me because I gave the allowance she gave me to the Salvation Army and now I have no X'mas gift?

I asked her to buy my InuYasha dvd for Christmas and she gave me an allowance. She saw me buy a magazine and didn't care but then when I go outside and Salvation Army man jingle his bell and tell me merry Christmas I gave him money but my mom slapped me afterwards because she said that is no way to spend my allowance. =[

I know she doesn't like it when I give to charity but she's the one trying to make me Catholic so yahh and she said that I'm getting bad karma for my mouth because when she kept scolding me I told her to go back to Catholic school because God wants you to give to charity. Now I don't know what to do because I want my InuYasha DVD =[

She says she gives me everything but I'm over 15 and she once punished me for staying out until 6pm! I didn't know my curfew was 4pm O.O what do I do so I get Christmas gift? It's her fault she won't let me get a job yet to pay for my own dvds.

And also, is it really bad karma and is Jesus mad because I do that stuffs?

Mom slapped me because I gave the allowance she gave me to the Salvation Army and now I have no X'mas gift?
It not a must that you need to buy that DVD coz every year there is a X'mas day ... If you miss it this year, there bound to be a Xmas day every year, it is not a big deal, buy it some other time when you have save enough starting from everyday a little....



Think in other way, there are still lots of kids and people out there without a Xmas present in this world every year...and they are living below the line of poverty. A meal for them is also a problem for them too, and sometime they only want this gift from god....food.

Acutally you are creating Good karma by donate off the allowance to the salavation army, coz it help thousand of other people and children. Maybe you will think its a small amount but if everyone donate a little, the amount can be large .....



Ask you mum, is she scolding you because you are bring joyous moment to the less fortunate for this Xmas season?

I am sure she will stunt when you ask her this question. Don't grow anger with your mum, this will have a negative karma in you...just talk to her nicely, I'm sure she can understand .... coz you belong to her, your are her fresh and blood...think about the labour pain she need to bear for giving birth to you and rising you up....Forgiveness is a good virtue.



If there is only one method, I am willing to die and allow my fresh to exchange for food to feed the hunger, I really willing to....coz with only me dieing, lots of people can survive....



Remember: In this world there is no "me", if there are no "others"....

and we should not always think of ourself, our needs, our crave ... coz we bring here nothing and we leave this world nothing...



Hope I have answer your question.

Amitabha!!
Reply:no i just put it as an assumption if there is an exchange program....for my fresh to food for people Report It
Reply:It's never wrong to give to charity. You did a good thing. Sorry, besides that I have no idea how to answer your question.
Reply:i know this is stupid when heard but

you gotta see her point of view and where she is standing in position right now, as in whats happening

my thought is she probably wanted you to keep the money to pleasure you cause you wanted to buy the dvd

but instead of that you gave it to somebody else, even though is for a good cause, wouldn't the mother feel its better if your happy

i hope you get your InuYasha dvd (yay), maybe by showing how much the dvd means how happy your going to be =)
Reply:Im sorry, but to me ,that doesn't add up.
Reply:Personally, I think you did a good thing for charity, giving up money to give to others who don't have the money to enjoy a Christmas.

I can also tell your mother must be incredibly strict for you to keep to deadlines and what she wants you to do. In my opinion she is almost commanding your life, and you have the right to do what you want in life and not let others get you down. However, I can feel that your mother also wants you to become a good Catholic. But that is definitely NOT the way to treat people.

I would suggest you not to worry too much about your InuYasha DVD. I think your mother should let you go on a bit by yourself and stop telling you what to do like a puppet controller. You are not a puppet, and although I am not Christian, I believe that Jesus have faith in you to do what you believe you should do, but respect your parents also.

Your mother should sharpen up herself a little bit and stop treating you so badly. You should be able to go out there, get a job and support yourself with money that you earnt yourself, so if your mother starts to scold you about what you do with your money, making your own money and spending it how you want to spend it is the best way.
Reply:Learn to speak the English eh?
Reply:this is not fair
Reply:Your mom is psycotic!! I am glad u will soon be on ur own.
Reply:No, but I am mad with your mom. As for Jesus being mad with her I can not say. Not my place. You did a good thing as far as I can tell, and as long as you give from your heart, your good. ;) Now as for the DVD? Pray?
Reply:Umm, I hated growing up Catholic.



You are not getting bad Karma for giving to charity or speaking to your mom that way.



She's wrong, you're right. Just keep quiet till you're old enough to move out. Then, move out and work on your mom from the safety of your own home.
Reply:I think you made this up.
Reply:I think that you have more common sense than your mother does. However, you are still a minor and you must follow her rules until you are an adult and move out. I admire you for giving some of your allowance to the Salvation Army. I'm sure that God and the angels smile on you for your kindness. As far as your Christmas gift, you may not get it. Just remember that you did the right thing and that there are those without anything who will benefit from your donation. Don't give anymore donations though if you mom doesn't want you to.



God Bless You!! Have a Merry Christmas and remember that Christmas is about giving!!!!
Reply:Life is tough sometimes, but your mom has no business slapping you. God will bless you for being generous. The bible talks about sowing and reaping, forget about karma.
Reply:That sucks.
Reply:you need to confront her and tell her to back off a little. if you want to use your money that she gave you to buy something for yourself, and give it to charity, good for you! tell her that it's your descision and that she should be proud earning your own allowance and donating it to someone that needs it more than you do. if your curfew is 4 pm, your moma is crazy! tell her that sooner or later that your going to be out on your own and you need to have a little more time with your friends and socializing. confront your mother and try to be nice to her.
Reply:Jesus isn't mad. lol. he forgives as long as you know that what you did is wrong. no offense but if I could I would slap your mom. because you sound like a good person and she doesn't see that. %26gt;(

Surely you have more family that would be willing to get you that dvd. Maybe you can ask some other family members for work or chores so you can get money to buy it.
Reply:no offense, but your mom sounds like the mom from Rage of Carrie. No it's not bad Karma and Jesus is not mad because he teaches us not to be selfish and to give to others.
Reply:WHAT SLAP HER BACK
Reply:That is crap. Talk to to ur mom.
Reply:keep on doing what you are doing!!donating money to a good cause not a bad karma thing and so what just ask a friend to get it for you or a relative!and tell her the fact that you're not a kid anymore and that you can handle yourself and have more responsibility and one more thing!its your money so i think its fair you get to choose what you do with it!and besides for christmas if she is getting mad then give her the silent treatment till she gets it or go to a friends and stay there and ask them to buy you a gift!!good luck!!i hope i helped!By the way don't listen to starry boy he is an idiot who doesn't know what to do other than slap people and needs to learn to mind his own bussiness if he can't answer the question then he shouldn't!!
Reply:i'm so sorry that is just a little bit messed up cuz that's part of being catholic and she is trying to make you one but keeping you away from all of it so yah its really nice you did that for the salvation army.
Reply:You keep on giving to charity. Good Karma will help you later in life
Reply:No Jesus is not mad at you for giving to the salvation army. Sometimes parents do things they don't really mean. Be patient when parents become parents there is no book out there explain how parenthood will be or how to react when your child does someting. Speak to someone in the church like one of the teachers of catholic classes for advise. Relax things will work themselves out. Good luck keep being a giving loving person God loves us no matter what but when you are giving and loving towards other human beings I guess you are doing what the Lord wants us to do.
Reply:Wow.
Reply:well tell your mom its for a good cause she will understand
Reply:idk ur mom

seems weird
Reply:This is really sad. Merry Christmas.
Reply:Your mom is crazy.
Reply:I think it's good that you gave money to charity, that sort of thing should be encouraged! Although you did kind of ruin it by saying that you want the DVD now....
Reply:I find it very admirable that you gave your money to the Salvation Army. I guess that's why it says that we must all become like children, in the bible. Children are more innocent and honest. And no I don't believe God would be mad at such a selfless act. I believe you will be blessed for your kindness!!!
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